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 Happy Mother's Day
 

MOTHERS and MOMS

 


This is for the mothers who have sat up

all night with sick toddlers in their arms,

wiping up barf laced with Oscar Mayer

wieners and cherry Kool-Aid saying,

'It's okay honey, Mommy's here.'


Who have sat in rocking chairs for hours on end soothing crying babies who can't be comforted.


This is for all the mothers who show up at

work with spit-up in their hair and milk stains

on their blouses and diapers in their purse.


For all the mothers who run carpools and

make cookies and sew Halloween costumes.

And all the mothers who DON'T.


This is for the mothers who gave birth to

babies they'll never see. And the mothers

who took those babies and gave them homes.


This is for the mothers whose priceless art

collections are hanging on their refrigerator doors.


And for all the mothers who froze their buns on metal bleachers at baseball  and softball games instead of watching from the warmth of their cars.
And that when their kids asked, 'Did you see me, Mom?' they could say, 'Of course, I wouldn't

have missed it for the world,' and mean it.


This is for all the mothers who yell at their kids in the grocery store and swat them in despair when they stomp their feet and scream for ice cream before dinner. And for all the mothers who count to ten instead, but realize how child abuse happens.


This is for all the mothers who sat down with

their children and explained all about making

babies. And for all the (grand)mothers who

wanted to, but just couldn't find the words.


This is for all the mothers who go

hungry, so their children can eat. 


 For all the mothers who read ' Thumpity-Thump Gets Dressed' ,

 twice a night for a year. And then

read it again, 'Just one more time.'


This is for all the mothers who taught

their children to tie their shoelaces before

they started school. And for all the mothers

who opted for Velcro instead.


This is for all the mothers who teach their sons

to cook and their daughters to  throw a ball.


This is for every mother whose head turns automatically when a little voice calls 'Mom?'

in a crowd, even though they know their

own offspring are at home -- or even away

at college -- or have their own families.


This is for all the mothers who sent their kids

to school with stomach aches, assuring them

they'd be just FINE once they got there, only

to get calls from the school nurse an hour later

asking them to please pick them up. Right away.


This is for mothers whose children have gone

astray, who can't find the words to reach them.

For all the mothers who bite their lips until they

bleed when their 14 year olds dye their hair green.


For all the mothers of the victims of

recent school shootings, and the mothers

of those who did the shooting.


For the mothers of the survivors, and the mothers who sat in front of their TVs in horror, hugging their child who just came home from school, safely.


This is for all the mothers who taught their

children to be peaceful, and now pray

they come home safely from a war.


What makes a good mother anyway?

Is it patience? Compassion? Broad hips?
The ability to nurse a baby, cook dinner, and

sew a button on a shirt, all at the same time?


Or is it in her heart?
Is it the ache she feels when she

watches her son or daughter disappear

down the street, walking to school alone

for the very first time?


The jolt that takes her from sleep to

dread, from bed to crib at 2 A.M. to put

her hand on the back of a sleeping baby?


The panic, years later, that comes again

at 2 A.M. when she just wants to hear

their key in the door and know they

are safe again in her home?


Or the need to flee from wherever she is

and hug her child when she hears news

of a fire, a car accident, a child dying?


The emotions of motherhood are

universal and so our thoughts are for

young mothers stumbling through diaper

changes and sleep deprivation...

And for mature mothers learning to let go.


For working mothers and stay-at-home mothers.


Single mothers and married mothers.


Mothers with money, mothers without.


This is for you all. For all of us...


Hang in there. In the end we can

only do the best we can. Tell them

every day that we love them. And pray

and never stop being a mother...


Please pass along to all the mothers in your life.


'Home is what catches you when

you fall - and we all fall.'


(I just did!)

 

 

Posted by Granny at 11:01 PM - 5 Comments   Add a Comment  
 
 Maybe I did something right.....
 

I have been searching for an Anger Management class or some way to help Billy with his anger. That is much harder out here than you would think.  Well today I ran into a woman I know that works for the Children's Home Society in our area.  There she was standing in my way at the meat counter.( )  So, I asked her if she had any ideas what I could do to help my grandson.  She was all over that!!!  She promised to get back with me.  I also have another ladies name that I am going to check with tomorrow and see if she has any leads.  So just maybe I can get Billy more help.  Thank you dear Lord. 

Branden gave Billy the idea of starting a blog to express his feelings.  I told him OK, but there would be no name calling or swearing. Billy can be very good at both.  So last night he set it up and tonight he is working feverishly to make it cool. You know, background, music the whole thing.  I again hope this can be a good thing for him.

The student who fell yesterday was back at school today. The student has a concussion so everyone was on high alert to not let them hit their head again. That could be real serious.    

Well, one more day this week.  Then there will only be 27 days left of this school year.  Man it seems like we just started!!!  Where has the time disappeared too??? Time is just flying away.  Guess that is the way it is with old age...  My pointed head is feeling empty tonight.  I think I am tired.  Can't for the life of me figure out why...  Oh well, that is it for tonight.

Everyone be safe, and take care.

Granny  

Posted at 9:22PM PST  

Posted by Granny at 12:22 AM - 1 Comment   Add a Comment  
 

 WHY IT'S BETTER TO BE THE BOSS.....
 



ANY QUESTIONS???????


Sorry I just couldn't resist sharing this one...
Granny
Back later.....

Posted at 6:11PM PST...
Posted by Granny at 9:11 PM - 3 Comments   Add a Comment  
 

 Medical from Father.
 

I contacted the DCS, Department of Child Support. They actually answered me right away. The insurance furnished by their father is to pay for what the medical coupons are used for. IF I use that insurance as a primary insurance, I have to pay all the out of pocket expenses. Fun huh???

I talked with Billy's therapist and he is a preferred provider within the insurance company, BUT is not allowed to take medical coupons. So there goes my idea oh more sessions a year for Billy. I am going to contact welfare and see if there is any way the the therapist can be allowed to except the coupons.

As for getting Billy into an anger management class, I have run into a bit of a problem. No one seems to know where any are. Why would there be something that someone needs??? So I don't know what is going to happen there.

What is becoming very evident is that Billy does not get along well with women in authority. His anger flares very quickly to a woman. So his therapist is telling our insurance that Billy is going to need LONG TERM therapy. But surprise!!! I just wish I could have convinced him a few years ago.

So that is what is up with that new insurance. Yippy skippy...

I had another scary day at work. I think the kids are ganging up on me!!! A student fell on a rope climb and hit the base of the scull on the big toy. The student walked into the health room on their own, and another staff member started caring for them, as I was out with the wheel chair getting another student who had twisted their knee badly. Minor compared to the first one. When I got back into the health room the first student was stating that they could not feel their fingers on the right hand. OK, I was on the phone to the parent. They came quickly and took their child to the doctor. The doctor called the school and talked to the other staff member and had several questions about the incident. So tonight there are several of us keeping this child in our prayers.

OK, I am going to back on out. I am a bit drained tonight. Billy and Branden did get the summer classes they wanted to take. Billy - welding, and Branden CAD Drafting. So that will keep them busy for a few days after school is out.

Take care, Hugs all around,
Granny

Posted at 7:42PM PST.....
Posted by Granny at 10:43 PM - 8 Comments   Add a Comment  
 

 Now this is not going to be fun!!!
 

Today was anything but a good day. I found out that Billy is in trouble again at school.  I just do not understand.  Why is it that he can not just go to school and not cause trouble???  He is on a 2 day suspension, but that might grow.  The principal is investigating other problems.  

Billy was in his therapy session when I got this nice little piece of information.  I called and interrupted the session so his therapist could know what is going on.  Tonight the therapist called and we talked about things more in depth.  He wants me to try to find an Anger Management Class for Billy.  No Kidding!!!! That kid has major anger issues.  I told him that to start with!!!! OK, So now I have to try to find one then I can figure out how to pay for it.   Oh my dear God, what next???  

I think I need to start a second blog to write the bad, sad stuff in and then this one for fun and happy stuff.  But knowing me I would get confused... You will just have to take to sad and bad with the happy and fun.  Things seem to be going straight down hill..  This is not right.

Well, I started out to show that I had learned something new today.  but right now, I am not feeling very festive.  All prayers will be welcomed.

Hugs to all,

Granny

Posted 8:24PM PST
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